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Give Up the Revenge

Vengeance destroys. Its effect is so great that everyone can be hurt. The forgotten past is brought alive. There is no end.

Everyone has the seeds of avenging for someone and something. Unless these seeds are nurtured, they can never grow.

Yes, you and I always have the need to avenge for our failures. We always blame others for the stumbling blocks we face. We put others at fault because of our ignorance and arrogance.

It is time you need to 'fix' your thoughts. You need to give up the revenge. Revenge will never work. You will be farther away from your goals if you concentrated to destroy others.

Instead, concentrate on the good things in your life. To live well and enjoy whatever that comes into your way, you have to accept yourself in the first place.

Accept Your Failures

Failures are depressing!

Yes, all of us have failed and will keep on failing. Accept that.

There is nothing scary or frightening about failing.

The scariest moment will be when you do not know how to stand again after a fall. That is real depressing! That is really sad. You have lost the will to continue just because you failed (once!) at this time.

Failures are in fact a way to tell you that you are not ready yet. The first thing you should do now is to stand back and find out what is wrong. Then,  start again.

The trophy that awaits you at the end of the hardship must be tremendous should you succeed.

So, it is good to accept your failures!

Everyone of us has lots of tasks to complete everyday, every single hour. These tasks may be difficult and need lots of concentration. However, to complete them, we need to get one task done at a time! There is no used fretting and concern over many things and not being able to complete any task.

Complete one task, then attempt the next task, and make sure that is completed too before starting the next one. Consciously brush aside any concerns that come into your mind. We all have only one mind, and so it is good to concentrate only in what we are doing at the moment.

Always do what is in our power. Have no concern with what is not. We cannot change what is not ours, but we can complete and make perfect what is ours. Remember, all beautiful cloth in this world begins and ends with one of millions individual threads.    

Accept all your faults

We are not perfect beings. We make mistakes every day. Some of these mistakes are harmless to ourselves or others. It is when you misjudge a situation, you will fall into the trap.

Since you are not perfect, it is good to pursue perfectness.  However, before doing so, you must accept your imperfection. We all must do that. Your faults make you stumble along the way, but accepting these faults can help to make you stand upright and continue where you have left again.